Audio by Dr. Michael Sokolow

If a minor made a declaration of refusal against a man, he is permitted [to marry] Her relatives and she is permitted to [marry] his relatives, and he does not disqualify her from [marrying] a priest; but if he gave her a letter of divorce, he is forbidden to [marry] Her relatives and she is forbidden to [marry] his relatives, and he also disqualifies her from [marrying] a priest. If he gave her a letter of divorce and remarried her and, after she had exercised her right of refusal against him, she was married to another man and became a widow or was divorced, she is permitted to return to him. 
If a minor exercised her right of refusal against a man, and then she was married to another man who divorced her, and afterwards to another man against whom she made a declaration of refusal, and then to another man who divorced her, she is forbidden to return to the man from whom she was separated by a letter of divorce, but is permitted to return to him from whom she was separated by her exercise of the right of mi`un.

 יבמות 13.4
הממאנת באיש-- הוא מותר בקרובותיה, והיא מותרת בקרוביו, ולא פסלה מן הכהונה; נתן לה גט-- הוא אסור בקרובותיה, והיא אסורה בקרוביו, ופסלה מן הכהונה׃ נתן לה גט, והחזירה, ומיאנה בו, ונישאת לאחר-- נתאלמנה או נתגרשה, מותרת לחזור לו; מיאנה בו, והחזירה, ונתן לה גט, ונישאת לאחר-- נתאלמנה או נתגרשה, אסורה לחזור לו׃ זה הכלל-- גט אחר מיאון, אסורה לחזור לו; מיאון אחר גט, מותרת לחזור לו

If, however, she exercised her right of refusal against him and he remarried her, and subsequently gave her a letter of divorce and then she was married to another man and became a widow or was divorced, she is forbidden to return to him. This is the general rule: if divorce followed mi`un she is forbidden to return to him, and if mi`un followed divorce she is permitted to return to him.

 יבמות 13.5
הממאנת באיש, ונישאת לאחר וגירשה, לאחר ומיאנה בו, לאחר וגירשה, לאחר ומיאנה בו׃ זה הכלל-- כל שיצאת ממנו בגט, אסורה לחזור לו; במיאון, מותרת לחזור לו

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